Embracing the Return: Navigating the Emotional Journey Back to Work After Maternity Leave

Returning to work after maternity leave is more than just a change in your daily routine — it’s a profound transition that touches the heart, mind, and spirit. For many new mums (and dads), this period brings a swirl of emotions: joy, excitement, anxiety, guilt, hope, and sometimes, self-doubt.

If you’re standing at this crossroads, know this: your feelings are valid, and your journey is unique — yet shared by many.

The Emotional Landscape of Returning to Work

The tug at your heartstrings. Leaving your baby, even for a few hours, can feel like an emotional earthquake. You worry, “Is my baby okay? Am I missing out on precious moments?” This tug is natural and speaks to the deep bond you’ve nurtured.

The professional identity check. After months (or years) focused on motherhood, questions may arise: “Am I still relevant at work? Have I lost my edge? Can I keep up?” The workplace may feel unfamiliar or even intimidating at first.

The balancing act challenge. Juggling work responsibilities with family needs often feels like walking a tightrope. Every day brings choices — some easy, some heart-wrenching — about priorities and time.

The vulnerability to emotions. It’s okay to feel emotional — overwhelmed by the change, exhausted by new demands, or simply processing everything happening at once. Emotions are part of the healing and adapting process.

Insights to Support You on This Journey

1. You Are Not Alone — And It’s Okay to Ask for Help

   Behind every professional mum is a network of support, whether it’s family, friends, or colleagues. Seeking support is a strength, not a weakness. Sharing your feelings with trusted people can lighten the load.

   
   

2. Your Value Has Grown — Not Diminished

   Parenthood adds layers of empathy, resilience, patience, and multitasking that enrich your professional life. These soft skills are often the very qualities that make you stand out.

   
   

3. Perfection is Not the Goal — Presence Is

   You don’t need to “do it all” or be perfect. What matters most is presence — in work, in parenting, and in caring for yourself.

   
   

4. Embrace Flexibility and Boundaries

   Life after maternity leave is a balancing act, not a juggling contest. Setting boundaries and creating flexibility in your routine helps protect your energy and sanity.

Introducing My New Coaching Programme for Mums Returning to Work

Recognising the emotional and practical challenges faced by mums during this transition, I’ve created a personalised coaching programme designed to empower and support you.

This programme offers:

• Tailored one-on-one coaching sessions focused on your specific needs

• Practical strategies for balancing work and family life without losing yourself

• Tools to manage guilt, build confidence, and reduce stress

• A safe space to process emotions and develop a plan that honours both your career and your motherhood journey

  
  

You don’t have to navigate this path alone. Together, we can make your return to work a journey of growth, resilience, and renewed purpose.

Learn more and join the programme here: https://www.mafaldanovo.com/individualservices

Final Thoughts

The return to work after maternity leave isn’t just a change in schedule — it’s a chapter of transformation. Be gentle with yourself, celebrate small wins, and remember that this is a journey, not a race.

Your experience, your feelings, and your success matter deeply — both at home and at work.

What’s been the biggest lesson or insight you’ve had returning to work after maternity leave? I’d love to hear your story. Get in touch.

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