We prepare for the birth, for feeding, for sleep schedules — but rarely do we prepare for ourselves. Motherhood changes everything — your body, your time, your relationships, your career, and even your sense of self. Yet most mums only plan for the logistics, not the life  that comes after. You spend months researching the best pram, packing the hospital bag, setting up the nursery, and reading about newborn routines… but when the noise quietens, a new question arises: Who am